I HAVE TALKED ABOUT THE TRUE BEAUTY OF A WOMAN IN “SOCIETY’S VERSION OF BEAUTY “. NOW IT’S TIME THAT I TALK ABOUT THE INNER WORKING’S OF A MAN.
I REALLY CANT BELIEVE THAT IM TAKING THIS ON BECAUSE THIS IS A TOPIC THAT IS EXTREMLY HARD FOR ME TO TALK ABOUT BECAUSE I AM A MAN .GENERALLY MEN DONT TALK ABOUT THEIR FEELINGS AND IM NO DIFFERENT BUT IM GOING TO STEP OUTSIDE OF MY COMFORT ZONE AND DO IT ANYWAY.
AS MEN WE WANT TO BE NEEDED, WE WANT TO BE THE ONE WHO SOLVES ALL OF THE PROBLEMS OF OUR LOVED ONES BUT AT THE SAME TIME WE WANT TO BE THE MOST DOMINANT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE, MEANING THE STRONGEST PERSON IN YOUR LIFE.
IS IT BECAUSE THAT’S WHAT WE SEE ON T.V.? OR IS IT BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT HAS BEEN ENGRAINED IN US? OR IS IT BECAUSE WE HEAR IT IN THE MUSIC THAT WE LISTEN TO? AND DOES OUR ENVIORMENT HAVE ANY BEARING ON HOW WE SEE OURSELF’S AS MEN?
I THINK THAT ALL OF THESE HAVE AN EFFECT ON OUR LIVES BUT THE ONE THAT HAS THE MOST PROFOUND EFFECT ON US IN MY OPINION IS OUR ENVIORMENT. IF YOU HAVE A FULL FAMILY STRUCTURE AT HOME AND BOTH PARENTS AT HOME, THEN YOU HAVE A GOOD START BUT WHAT IF YOU DONT?
CAN A WOMAN RAISE A MAN, WHEN SHE HAS NO IDEA HOW TO BE A MAN HERSELF? I DONT THINK SO , NOT TO TAKE ANYTHING AWAY FROM THOSE BEAUTIFUL STRONG WOMEN WHO ARE DOING THE JOB OF BOTH PARENT’S BY HERSELF !
AS A MATTER OF FACT, I SALUTE YOU WOMEN WHO ARE DOING THAT!
NOW, LET ME MAKE SURE THAT I AM EXTREMLY CLEAR SAYING THIS NEXT SENTENCE…
AT TIMES IT’S GOING TO BE HARD BEING IN OUR LIFES OR LETTING US BE IN YOUR LIVES BECAUSE SOME OF US ARE STUCK IN OUR WAYS AND SOME OF YOU THINK THAT YOU CAN CHANGE US. WRONG!
IT’S BEST TO LET US BE FOR THE MOST PART. AT THE SAME BE THERE FOR US WHEN WE FALL AND BUMP OUR HEAD BECAUSE WE WILL FALL.
JUST FOR YOUR INFORMATION, WOMEN, DONT TRY TO TAKE OUR DECISION MAKING AWAY FROM US! IT IS DE-MASCULATING, IT’S LIKE CUTTING OFF OUR BALLS!
ITS ONE OF THE QUICKEST WAYS TO START A FIGHT OR EVEN END A RELATIONSHIP. IT’S COOL FOR YOU (WOMEN) TO MAKE SOME DECISIONS BUT WHEN IT COMES TO MAJOR CHOICES…CALL ON US!
IM NOT SAYING THAT OUR (MEN) DECISION IS GOING TO BE ALWAYS RIGHT BUT YOU HAVE ATLEAST INCLUDED US IN THE DECISION.
I WANT TO MAKE THIS LAST AND FINAL STATEMENT PERFECTLY CLEAR
“THERE IS NOTHING LIKE THE LOVE OF A GOOD WOMAN” AND MOST OF US MEN WOULD BE LUCKY TO BE ABLE TO EXPERIENCE THAT ONCE IN OUR LIFETIME.
I HOPE THAT I HAVE NOT PUT MY FOOT IN MY MOUTH BY SAYING SOME OF THE THINGS THAT I HAVE AND IF I HAVE OFFENDED ANYONE, PLEASE ACCEPT MY APOLOGY BECAUSE THAT WAS NOT MY INTENTION.
AS ALWAYS, IF YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT ANYTHING THAT I HAVE SAID, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME AND I WILL GET BACK AT YOU ASAP. UNTIL THE NEXT TIME.
JAI’MAR SCOTT
DOC #970703
