Society’s Version Of Beauty

I grew up in a house with 3 sisters and waking up early every morning to get ready for school or work was a real challenge. It was always a battle trying to get to the sink to brush my teeth and wash my face, with my sisters hogging the mirror to put on make-up or curling their hair.

I really didn’t understand it because my sisters are very beautiful by anyone’s standards! My question is, why were they trying so hard?

Well, it took me many years to figure it out, or at least come up with a reasonable explanation as to what was going on. Now I can’t say with certainty that I am 100% right, but this is what I think, and if you agree or dis-agree with me, please let me know. Well I’m going to quit running my mouth and get to sharing my thoughts…

Society as a whole, judge’s beauty on a level of physical appearance and now we have our women neglecting themselves to look like society’s image of beauty, and in the process, losing their individuality.

When a woman has lost her individuality, her whole being suffers mentally, emotionally, as well as physically. All of her insecurity’s come to the forefront of her life to surface behind the wall of society’s images, making her internally weak.

A woman can be painted beautiful or what men like to call “fine”, but if her attitude is ugly, she can destroy her very own essence therefore making her ugly. A woman is born with a natural essence which is where her true beauty comes from, and when that natural essence is polluted by society’s image, she then loses her true beauty because she has lost her own individuality.

Beauty is not only an appearance, but it is also a state of mind and a attitude that exudes beauty. Some women who think that they are “hot”…are in fact “not”, because they show themselves as being conceited, ill-mannered, and generally have a bad attitude with people they consider to be beneath them, or in most case’s ugly. And as I said before, a woman can be fine or even painted beautiful, but if her attitude is ugly, then she too is ugly.

However, if a woman knows of her true essence and nurture’s it and never abandon’s it…she then becomes the most beautiful of GOD’S creation, which is what he intended.

Most of the truly beautiful women in the world are of a more mature age. Why? Because they are not trying to fit into society’s image of what a woman should look like, and they are comfortable with who they are and they embrace their individuality.

The point…is to never allow society to mold you and determine who you become. True beauty comes from within us all, and it’s different for us all because of our individuality. So embrace it and enjoy it!
This is just what I think.

Jai’Mar Scott
DOC #970703

12 replies »

  1. I agree, society does influence how A LOT of women perceive themselves and I think one could argue that at times it difficult to not let society’s opinion become a factor in what beauty represents. I mean, we’re trained/brainwashed from young ages about what Beauty should look like; the television and popular culture are a few of the reasons why young women lack self-esteem and are not happy with who they are. I just think young women should be taught that the image of beauty is more than what they see on TV, it first resides in knowing your worth and then what can happen when you come unto yourself. Great post.

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  2. I Am totally BLOWN Away with Your Inspiring WORDS!

    It is SELF LoVe that Makes a Woman BEAUTIFUL from the InSide Out!

    I MySELF had depression in 1997 and I SEARCHED for Something to FREE Myself from it, which I did in 2010 of May as I started My Weight Loss Journey.
    I read The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. An AweSome read.

    Self LOVE set Me FREE!

    I Believe OUT World would be a BETTER Place When Others DID the Same


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