That is the name of a song by Jamie foxx.Now after listening to it do you agree with it?He is basically saying that we seem to always fall for the same type of woman. And for you women,the same type of man.At first I felt like its not […]
You just left and I can’t wait to see you on our next visit. It’s so nice visiting with you, even if it is for a short period of time. I get butterflies anticipating seeing you.Longing for the good conversations that we have, and the laughs that we […]
Gossiping and slander have been around for thousands of yrs.But it seems it has taken on a different dynamic. Now I have been incarcerated for 18 1/2 yrs.But Ive seen when this dynamic started to change. When social media became popular. When I was younger, most people would […]
To all the strong and beautiful independent women that I know, I have a message for you. A real man loves a independent woman. But please understand that someone can look after you and care about your well being. No one is trying to take away your independence. […]
Why doesn’t anyone want to be looked at as being different? It seems like everyone just wants to fit in and be excepted. Even if its for the wrong things.Peer pressure is a very powerful thing,no matter what age group you are in.I’ve been called strange or weird […]
In today’s society it seems as if their has been a distortion between what’s age appropriate and what’s not. And when I say society, I’m talking about in here and the free world. Because even though we are locked up we still have access to the outside world. […]
I have been watching the Tally and it appears the people in border prisons and jails are getting all the free grease. I understand the way corporations and states operate these holding areas to get the most out of each person, but what about the people in state […]
I truly do enjoy writing my thoughts and feelings down. Because it helps me to reflect and see areas I need to improve in.I know that I am a work in progress, but I try to the best of my ability to improve as a man everyday. Some […]
Are you color blind?What I mean by color blind, is do you look at people and not judge them because of the color of their skin. Most people are quick to say yes to that question. But when you look deeper into yourself, is that really true? I […]
Patience is truly a virtue. And I have to learn how to be a little more patient with people that I give advice to.Trying to help someone can be a struggle, especially if its someone you care about. Because you want them to get it instantly. But I […]
What is the most valuable thing that a human can have? Now really think about that before you answer that. Because it depends on your background and your upbringing, to what you hold of true value.Some will say wealth, others will say good health.Some will say a happy […]
A few years ago I took a African studies forum class. And during that class I learned an old proverb. It said:YOUR TRUE CHARACTER IS LIKE PREGNANCY, YOU CAN ONLY HIDE IT FOR SO LONG.I have two guys that I have known before prison, got into a little […]
Please let me vent for a second. First of all let me say that I’m not a gay basher nor do I have anything against those who choose to live an alternative life style. But what I do hate is these guys who hide who they are. They […]
Proverbs 22:1 reads: A good name is to be chosen rather than great wealth. I really live by the code and principal that MY NAME IS ALL THAT I HAVE. And I will not let anyone destroy it or slander it. Nor will I slander anyone else’s name […]
One the most important tools we can have on our course of becoming better people.Is HONEST SELF REFLECTION. And I try to do it daily. Over the past few weeks I’ve been kind of down in rut and I haven’t been my usual self. You see, I was […]
My close friend, his son had a tattoo that read:BETRAYED BY LOYALTY. That is the story of my life. I have been back stabbed and betrayed by so many so called friends because I can be to loyal at times. That is one of the main reasons why […]
The other day a young man asked the question to a group of us,What do you miss most about a woman. Now most of you already know what the average response will be,sex. But I know most of you would expect that from men in prison. But I […]
I read once before: WHEN A MAN SPEAKS ABOUT A MATTER, BEFORE HAVING ALL THE FACTS, IT IS FOOLISHNESS ON HIS PART.I’ve come to realize through my life experiences, that is a true statement. Daily in here and on TV, I see people daily speak on things they […]
AFTER MY LAST POST SOMEONE ASKED ME IF I KNEW THEIR DAD,AND IT REALLY THREW ME FOR A LOOP.BECAUSE AT FIRST I DIDN’T KNOW HOW TO ANSWER THAT.AND IT’S NOT AN EASY WAY TO ANSWER THAT.I KNEW WHO YOUR DAD WAS,BUT BEFORE JUNE 16TH 1991,I HAD NEVER LAYED […]
HOW DID I GET HERE? I HAVE ASKED MYSELF THIS QUESTION A THOUSAND TIMES FOR THE PAST ALMOST 18YRS OF INCARCERATION. I KNOW ALOT OF PEOPLE IN SOCIETY FIND IT HARD TO BELIEVE THAT THEIR ARE INNOCENT PEOPLE IN PRISON.BUT IN THE DAY AND AGE OF JAIL HOUSE […]
MY NAME IS ARCHIE WILDER I’M 44 YRS OLD.I HAVE BEEN INCARCERATED SINCE FEB.7TH OF 2001 FOR A CRIME THAT I DIDNT COMMIT AND MY FIRST PAROLE BOARD DATE IS JANUARY OF 2034.I’M ORIGINALLY FROM CHICAGO AND I GREW UP IN TOLEDO,OHIO.I’M A FATHER OF 2,WITH 2 GRAND […]
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