Category: Archie Wilder

WHY? by Archie Wilder

It all started with conversation. Even though we lived in the same neighborhood, we really didn’t know each other. I had been living there for a while, you were new. A lot of people in the neighborhood knew of me,but they really didn’t know me.I had been to […]

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by Archie Wilder

In reply to what deborahkhora said. I am 100% in agreement with you.Everything thing in world is so sexualized, that it fuels these sick individuals desires who have no self-control. But I’m going to show you something from a different angle that might surprise you.Just as you said […]

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RARE/ANOMALY, by Archie Wilder

The definition of rare:Highly valued owing scarceness or uncommonness: special. definition of anomaly: something irregular or abnormal. There are people in the world who are rare and who would be considered an anomaly. Even if they don’t see it themselves. That’s what you are. If there are other […]

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Does Money Matter? by Archie Wilder

Jeffrey Epstein is a billionaire who is in the news for sex crimes involving children. But what’s so alarming is that this isn’t the first time. Yrs ago he was charged with similar crimes involving children. Now the average person would not have seen the light of day […]

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Flawed, by Archie Wilder

The definition of the word flawed: a defect, or blemish, imperfect. When you hear those words, you can apply that to every human being on this planet. So if all humans are flawed or imperfect, can a human being make anything perfect? Any rational thinking human being already […]

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Only In Prison, by Archie Wilder

Its things that happen everyday in prison that people in society would not believe.Prison is a world of it’s own. Some of the things I’m going to tell you will probably shock you. But just imagine being a sane person and having to deal with this daily for […]

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by Archie Wilder

Gossiping and slander have been around for thousands of yrs.But it seems it has taken on a different dynamic. Now I have been incarcerated for 18 1/2 yrs.But Ive seen when this dynamic started to change. When social media became popular. When I was younger, most people would […]

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by Archie Wilder

To all the strong and beautiful independent women that I know, I have a message for you. A real man loves a independent woman. But please understand that someone can look after you and care about your well being. No one is trying to take away your independence. […]

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by Archie Wilder

Why doesn’t anyone want to be looked at as being different? It seems like everyone just wants to fit in and be excepted. Even if its for the wrong things.Peer pressure is a very powerful thing,no matter what age group you are in.I’ve been called strange or weird […]

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by Archie Wilder

In today’s society it seems as if their has been a distortion between what’s age appropriate and what’s not. And when I say society, I’m talking about in here and the free world. Because even though we are locked up we still have access to the outside world. […]

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by Archie Wilder

I truly do enjoy writing my thoughts and feelings down. Because it helps me to reflect and see areas I need to improve in.I know that I am a work in progress, but I try to the best of my ability to improve as a man everyday. Some […]

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by Archie Wilder

Patience is truly a virtue. And I have to learn how to be a little more patient with people that I give advice to.Trying to help someone can be a struggle, especially if its someone you care about. Because you want them to get it instantly. But I […]

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by Archie Wilder

What is the most valuable thing that a human can have? Now really think about that before you answer that. Because it depends on your background and your upbringing, to what you hold of true value.Some will say wealth, others will say good health.Some will say a happy […]

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by Archie Wilder

A few years ago I took a African studies forum class. And during that class I learned an old proverb. It said:YOUR TRUE CHARACTER IS LIKE PREGNANCY, YOU CAN ONLY HIDE IT FOR SO LONG.I have two guys that I have known before prison, got into a little […]

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by Archie Wilder

Please let me vent for a second. First of all let me say that I’m not a gay basher nor do I have anything against those who choose to live an alternative life style. But what I do hate is these guys who hide who they are. They […]

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by Archie Wilder

Proverbs 22:1 reads: A good name is to be chosen rather than great wealth. I really live by the code and principal that MY NAME IS ALL THAT I HAVE. And I will not let anyone destroy it or slander it. Nor will I slander anyone else’s name […]

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by Archie Wilder

One the most important tools we can have on our course of becoming better people.Is HONEST SELF REFLECTION. And I try to do it daily. Over the past few weeks I’ve been kind of down in rut and I haven’t been my usual self. You see, I was […]

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by Archie Wilder

My close friend, his son had a tattoo that read:BETRAYED BY LOYALTY. That is the story of my life. I have been back stabbed and betrayed by so many so called friends because I can be to loyal at times. That is one of the main reasons why […]

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by Archie Wilder

The other day a young man asked the question to a group of us,What do you miss most about a woman. Now most of you already know what the average response will be,sex. But I know most of you would expect that from men in prison. But I […]

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by Archie Wilder

I read once before: WHEN A MAN SPEAKS ABOUT A MATTER, BEFORE HAVING ALL THE FACTS, IT IS FOOLISHNESS ON HIS PART.I’ve come to realize through my life experiences, that is a true statement. Daily in here and on TV, I see people daily speak on things they […]

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