That is a term that a lot of people use lightly. It so strange that most (not all) of my close friendships are with people that I have met over this 19 1/2 yrs of incarceration. It just gos to show that you can establish good friendships anywhere. […]
I sit and think about all the lessons that people who were older than me tried to me. I didn’t either listen to what they had said, or at that time I didn’t understand the value of what they were trying to teach me.Experience is not always the […]
Sunshine is vital to all life on earth. Without it we wouldn’t enjoy the things that we take for granite. When you are sitting in darkness you really miss sunshine.I’ve been seeing a total eclipse for some time now. I really do miss the sun. I don’t know […]
I have encountered a lot of different people in my life. From different backgrounds and walks of life. But there are very few that I consider to be friends. Some have passed away, some are still living. But this is a letter to all of you. To Butterball […]
Empathy is a quality that most people today (myself included at times) don’t display. Most people do not care about the problems of other people unless it affects them directly. As human beings we can be judgmental at times. I know that in times past I’ve been critical […]
I could never understand why a man would want to harm a woman because she doesn’t want to be with him. Now don’t get me wrong, most of have had our feelings hurt by someone. Rejection never feels good. But women out number us 7 to 1.Now I’m […]
Is a thing of the past in our prison system.In this day and age its all about doing time and generating money.In prison yrs ago certain things were mandatory.Such as, if you didn’t have a diploma or GED it was mandatory that you went to school.Now they give […]
I just transferred to another prison.here is my new contact info… ARCHIE WILDER #414917 A.C.I. BOX 4501 LIMA,OHIO 45802
Why do women who you may have shown some type of interest in,find it hard to take objective sound advice from you.I’ve had this happen to me so many times that its crazy.I’m going to share a few stories with you. I decided long ago that I wasn’t […]
So from your response I take it you are saying its alright to lie?I think your missing the whole point.Its not like my friend was lying to someone who was trying to bring them harm, they were lying to someone who would’ve understood and tried to help them […]
I’m doing better.Me and my friend had the opportunity to talk.And it felt good getting an understanding.I just wanted them to understand that my friendship is real.And that I’m a friend who will face the storm with them and not run when things get rough.Good friendships can be […]
In response, their isn’t a human being on this planet who isn’t capable of lying.I’m by no means this holy stuck up vicar.I’ve made a lot of mistakes.But I don’t take friendship lightly.Especially when I was told by them that they considered me a good friend.Plus they prided […]
I truly wish that you could read my mind and my heart. That way you can see that I’m completely 100% honest with you.So That you can see that I only have your best interest at heart. Even when I have sucka attacks 🙂 So you can see […]
I have a friend of mine, who I care about.I’ve never tried to do anything but help them. But we have been having a few arguments lately about a certain subject matter. I really trusted this friend, and they have denied it to the end.And today I got […]
I was once told a story by my brother about an eagle and a snake. I want to share it with you guys because as of late it seems to be a reoccurring theme in my life with my children and one of my friends. There was a […]
In today’s society money is the motivating factor behind a lot of the choices and decisions that people make in everyday life. Their are two things that have been in the news lately that I would like to discuss.Jeffrey Epstein made the news again this week.This time because […]
This weekend I had a yard sale. I got rid of a lot of stuff that I didn’t need.For the most part the outside of my house was clean and well kept. And on the inside my kitchen, bathroom, living room, and dining room looked great. But I […]
Life is such a precious gift.In the day in times we live in,none of us know what tomorrow will bring. Since I was a kid I have seen the effects of murder. When I was a child I lost my two uncles Larry and Darnell to murder in […]
Today someone could have lost their life about a prison fan.About a fan that belongs to the state of Ohio and doesn’t belong to any inmate in this prison. But they were willing to fight each other to the death about it. Someone last night could’ve lost their […]
It all started with conversation. Even though we lived in the same neighborhood, we really didn’t know each other. I had been living there for a while, you were new. A lot of people in the neighborhood knew of me,but they really didn’t know me.I had been to […]
In reply to what deborahkhora said. I am 100% in agreement with you.Everything thing in world is so sexualized, that it fuels these sick individuals desires who have no self-control. But I’m going to show you something from a different angle that might surprise you.Just as you said […]
I have been incarcerated for 18 and a half yrs for crime I didn’t not commit. And at times prison life can be very depressing.But it could be worse. I look on the news and I see stories that just break my heart.A few weeks ago I saw […]
What does loyalty mean to you? It seems that in the world today, most people do not display this quality in this me first world. My loyalty does not wane, and it’s sad daily how I see people be disloyal. I see guys that eat with each other […]
The definition of rare:Highly valued owing scarceness or uncommonness: special. definition of anomaly: something irregular or abnormal. There are people in the world who are rare and who would be considered an anomaly. Even if they don’t see it themselves. That’s what you are. If there are other […]
I’ve heard that statement all my life. But after living for a while and having a few life experiences, I truly get the sense of those words. I’m not defined by what I say,I’m defined by my actions.I know a guy that I grew up with,who is incarcerated […]
Have you ever cared about someone so much that you think about them all day? Have you ever cared about someone so much that you sit and wonder what they are doing, and if they are okay?If they are happy, or sad. Caring about someone while your in […]
Jeffrey Epstein is a billionaire who is in the news for sex crimes involving children. But what’s so alarming is that this isn’t the first time. Yrs ago he was charged with similar crimes involving children. Now the average person would not have seen the light of day […]
It’s funny how you can have conversation with someone, and the exact thing that you were talking about comes out in other area’s of your life.I was just speaking with someone the other day about allowing someone to paint a picture of them that wasn’t true. And now […]
The definition of the word flawed: a defect, or blemish, imperfect. When you hear those words, you can apply that to every human being on this planet. So if all humans are flawed or imperfect, can a human being make anything perfect? Any rational thinking human being already […]
Its things that happen everyday in prison that people in society would not believe.Prison is a world of it’s own. Some of the things I’m going to tell you will probably shock you. But just imagine being a sane person and having to deal with this daily for […]
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