Archie Wilder

by Archie Wilder

The other day a young man asked the question to a group of us,What do you miss most about a woman. Now most of you already know what the average response will be,sex. But I know most of you would expect that from men in prison. But I have a different outlook. Mainly because one of my closest friends is a woman who has been my friend since I was 10yrs old and she was 13.I’m just a product of our life long friendship. She taught me early on just how different men and women view things. One of the first things that I learned is,just because a woman smiles at you or gives you a lil conversation doesn’t mean that she wants to sleep with you. I’ve always enjoyed just the company of woman..And that’s because I was raised by strong women. And they taught me how to respect women. In this prison environment it seems as if these guys take pleasure in making an woman feel uncomfortable.And it bothers me to no end. Because I have a beautiful 19yr old daughter,and a mom and sisters who I would hate to see disrespected.And now back to the question at hand. Sex is a beautiful thing,but right now I would love to just spoon and cuddle and talk.I miss those things more than anything else. prison life has taught me to appreciate the small things,and those things matter the most.Men,not boys realize it’s more to life than just the physical expect. From the age 18 to 80,most adults can engage in intercourse. But if that is your only connection to a woman, then you have never truly connected with a woman. And these men think if you don’t talk about it constantly (sex)that you don’t miss it. They are sadly mistaken because I do,but I realize it’s more to life than just the pleasure of sex.Because if that’s all the relationship is based on,its not a solid relationship. That’s why you see older couples who are still happy with each other after decades of being together. Now I’m not saying that I have it all figured out, because I’ve made my fair share of mistakes. I went through my selfish dog stage also. But even then I’ve never been disrespectful or physically violent. Being away for so long has truly made REALLY APPRECIATE a woman. When god made the woman, he truly made this best thing a man can have. I would love to spoon and cuddle and watch a movie on a cold winter day. Sit down and have a nice dinner and good long talk.Walks along the water front. Now if I take the time to invest that type of time into my woman, not am I only going to build a good solid relationship.But I’m never going to be lacking ANYTHING in the physical (sexual)expect. šŸ™‚ šŸ™‚ šŸ™‚ šŸ™‚ šŸ™‚ šŸ™‚ šŸ™‚ šŸ™‚

Archie Wilder
DOC #414917

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